By James Byrd
Hexagram 54
The Marrying Maiden
I. The Oracle
A. The Judgement
In the current situation, advancing in any direction seems unwise. The phrase "Go Easy" suggests caution. The Marrying Maiden is joined by her younger sister, who is the vested consort. This scenario is favorable, but if the consort is older, problems may arise. Twins, of course, would complicate matters further. This is akin to a "Domestic Dispute," prompting one to step back and reassess. The advice here is to trust what you observe.
The marriage can be postponed without issue until certain variables align more favorably. Holding a wedding at an inopportune moment is like a cloudy sky without rain—anticipation without fulfillment.
- The Marrying Maiden: This signifies the transition from maidenhood to motherhood, provided the timing is suitable.
B. The Image
- Thunder over the Lake:
- a) To achieve a favorable outcome, a well-timed beginning is crucial. Planning is essential, similar to maintaining a journal in business. Adjust your personal plan as necessary for successful outcomes.
- b) The superior individual differentiates things carefully, ensuring each finds its correct place and time. Consider whether the moon is nearly full, as situations mature with approaching celestial events.
II. My Interpretation
A. Main Theme of Hexagram 54
The key lesson from Hexagram 54 is to avoid overoptimism and thoroughly evaluate all variables of a significant upcoming event. According to this hexagram, things might go awry if a long-term union is initiated at the wrong time.
- The aim is to ensure the happiness of a significant other with careful planning of memorable events like a wedding. After the next full moon, conditions may be more favorable—hence the term "Honeymoon." A good start is essential for an auspicious and lasting union, leading to abundance and harmony. Remember the initial dilemma: two brides and one groom. Always strive to do the right thing.